Comments on: Is It Normal to Hurt Others? http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html Tools and Inspiration for Personal Growth, to find and live the greatness within you. Personal Development is more than courage or comfort or success. It's about possibility and freedom. Tue, 16 Mar 2010 01:17:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: monica http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html/comment-page-1#comment-3276 monica Tue, 26 Feb 2008 00:15:33 +0000 http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html#comment-3276 Oh that was wonderfully written! I personally used anger and *sharp tongue* to those that would *hurt* me. I was always known as someone you "don't wanna cross". Until I had some awesome training that really assisted me in learning that my anger and sometimes cruelty to those I thought deserved it - was just a mask. I really do love and care for others. Even when they may do something I think isn't too nice. Now I just know it's okay - it doesn't effect me. I just love em anyway. But - that took me 39 years of my life to get to. ;) Again, great read. Monica Oh that was wonderfully written!

I personally used anger and *sharp tongue* to those that would *hurt* me. I was always known as someone you “don’t wanna cross”.

Until I had some awesome training that really assisted me in learning that my anger and sometimes cruelty to those I thought deserved it - was just a mask.

I really do love and care for others. Even when they may do something I think isn’t too nice. Now I just know it’s okay - it doesn’t effect me. I just love em anyway.

But - that took me 39 years of my life to get to. ;)

Again, great read.

Monica

]]> By: Shine http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html/comment-page-1#comment-3244 Shine Sat, 23 Feb 2008 05:49:25 +0000 http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html#comment-3244 Yup, it is sad that sometimes we keep all those feelings traped in our bodies, minds and spirits,... this is what really gives birth to sickness, all those tought then feelings and then words and actions and reactions staying in our bodies keep building up as a cancer, clothing our energy channels, separating us every day more of our Universal destiny. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! great blog keep the good Job! Yup, it is sad that sometimes we keep all those feelings traped in our bodies, minds and spirits,… this is what really gives birth to sickness, all those tought then feelings and then words and actions and reactions staying in our bodies keep building up as a cancer, clothing our energy channels, separating us every day more of our Universal destiny. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! great blog keep the good Job!

]]> By: Steve Olson http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html/comment-page-1#comment-3231 Steve Olson Thu, 21 Feb 2008 22:21:18 +0000 http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html#comment-3231 I used to lash out as matter of self-protection. You see when on the attack you're less vulnerable yourself. I think it became self-defense mechanism I built as a child. As a teenager I used violence at times, as I got older it was verbal or passive agressive. After many years of hard personal development work, I now recognize when I am about to attack and I can usually stop myself. It is freaky how I can now look back and see what I couldn't see then. I used to lash out as matter of self-protection. You see when on the attack you’re less vulnerable yourself. I think it became self-defense mechanism I built as a child.

As a teenager I used violence at times, as I got older it was verbal or passive agressive.

After many years of hard personal development work, I now recognize when I am about to attack and I can usually stop myself.

It is freaky how I can now look back and see what I couldn’t see then.

]]> By: LoveJots http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html/comment-page-1#comment-3216 LoveJots Tue, 19 Feb 2008 16:04:15 +0000 http://fearlessdreams.com/blog/are-you-emotionally-healthy_95.html#comment-3216 What a great question! I can see how when we were younger, we were careless in with our words and some have been careless with their fists. I hope that as we age wisdom takes hold and we heed it's advice. That there are better ways of dealing with life's frustrations and hurts than hurting another. My favorite saying is I wish that the word revenge was obliterated from our vocabulary. cheers What a great question!
I can see how when we were younger, we were careless in with our words and some have been careless with their fists.

I hope that as we age wisdom takes hold and we heed it’s advice.

That there are better ways of dealing with life’s frustrations and hurts than hurting another.

My favorite saying is I wish that the word revenge was obliterated from our vocabulary.

cheers

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